perfect relationship?

Someone I know is facing relationship problem. I wish I know how to help her, but there is no one fix solution.

We can't read another person mind, all we have is his/her words. Whether he/she means what he/she says we can't be sure. But I will like to believe. Trust is important in a relationship. If you treasure your relationship, and wants it to work, put your trust in him. Otherwise, the relationship is shaky. And that will not make a good relationship for you to begin with. It will only brings problems along the way. And heartache.

Everyone don't like someone else to keep nagging on the same issue. Don't put pressure on him, for it will only makes him get irritate with you. Give him space, as you will want him to give you yours. And he will appreciate you for that.

Yes, I know that nobody like to being the person to get dump. But if you give up too fast, you may lose a good person. As long as he doesn't illtreat you, or there is no evidence of unfaithfulness on his part, don't give up on him. Even for someone who did, through his foolishness, he deserves a second chance if he is a good partner before his mistake. A person has many characters and virtue, one should see the good versus the bad. See the person as a whole, and not be judge by a couple of incidences. That may not even be the truth.

We can't always force someone to do things the way we want. Nobody is perfect, relationship is not perfect. Life is not perfect. We can only hope to have near perfection.

Relationship is about growing and learning to be with the one we care ...